Why the Strategic Monk?
People ask quite a few questions about the name Strategic Monk.
Where did you get that name? What kind of a name is that? What does that mean? What was that name again?
Most of the questions are about the monk part. People want to know whether I am a real monk, and what my connection is to monks. A few people ask about the strategic part.
Strategic Monk is the story of my life.
I was raised to be a very strategic person, a person who finds the right answers and shares them with others. At school, at home, at church, I pursued the right answers. I went to school for a long time, including law school, and became a criminal prosecutor. I believed in the rightness of my answers.
I became the person who accomplished goals. I was focused on being strategic.
Eventually, I came to a point of dramatic transformation. I realized that I was asleep to myself, and that I neither knew nor considered what I wanted. I went through life doing what people expected me to do.
I began making changes. One of the most significant of those changes was discovering habits and practices that opened me to a more contemplative life.
I came to recognize a much deeper, more intimate connection to what was sacred and the holy in my everyday life.
Over time, I developed a relationship with a Benedictine monastery. I am a person who lives outside the monastery and who is committed to follow a way of life that supports monastic, contemplative values.
I continue to rely on the strengths and abilities that help me, and other people, get things done. I continue to develop the balance that helps me be more contemplative.
I am the Strategic Monk.
What is the overall story of your life?
[Image by Mike Cattell]


2 Comments
Carolyn Solares
August 25, 2012Wow, this sounds familiar. I would have missed your post had you not re-tweeted it, so thanks for that.
My own story includes twenty years of Catholic schools (yes seriously), military service, good jobs, marriage to a doctor…. In other words, I had the perfect container (to borrow Richard Rohr’s metaphor)–no real faith, but the perfect container. That container looked great on paper, but it could not guide me through major life crises–or joy–that challenged the container itself.
Your question at the end of your post resonates with me because I have been living a much richer story for a while. And my own renewed faith, practices and wise teachers have led me to a place where I can now write about it in color. Funny enough, my most recent post on my blog is called “The Whole Story.”
Very glad to have connected with you.
Strategic Monk
August 25, 2012Thank you, Carolyn.
Each of us has our own story, and each of us fills our container, over time, with our true selves. Telling our stories takes faith, practice, time, and wise people who will listen and share.
It is my pleasure.